A very close friend of mine na itatago na lamang natin sa pangalang Jaydee Lustre once told me, "Para kasi sa akin Bebe, ang sagot diyan sa basag mong puso ay bagong lalaki. Maraming maraming bagong lalaki kapalit ng isang gagong lalaki. There are so many fishes in the ocean. Advantage nalang natin dahil mga lamangdagat tayo."
I found it weird and funny and I just laughed at it. Medyo praning lang talaga iyong nagpayo sa akin. But then maybe she was just trying to lighten up the burden that I was carrying by that time she told me that. As time goes by, what she said has started to have some senses.
I may not call it as rebound. Pero sabi nga nila, don't fall in love when you're lonely but when you're ready.
But when you came to think of it, isn't it much easier to move on when someone is there to be with you? While you are currently healing your broken heart, someone is patiently waiting for you, taking care of you and your wounded heart and never leave your side. Ay, ang swerte mo kapag may nakilala kang ganung tao. Kumbaga, when an asshole leave your life, someone so right came along to fill that emptiness.
Love knows no time. Ano naman kung kakikilala niyo pa lang and yet pakiramdam mo ay parte na siya kaagad ng buhay mo? After all, happiness is a choice. We don't need to doom ourselves for a very long time just because someone stupid broke our heart or someone chose to leave us or by fate they just left.
Yes there is a process called moving on. But isn't it great when someone is there joining our journey and sharing with us the burden? Ano naman kung nag–mo-move on ka pa lang ay may kasama ka na sa buhay? Para sa akin wala namang masama sa bagay na iyon. Ano naman kung nagkaroon ka kaagad ng bagong pag-ibig? As long as you know to yourself what you truly feels then push! We know the signs and symptoms of being in love. I believe that it just come and we just discover it naturally.
Paalala lang, we must know our limits. Use things not people. Hindi sealant ang tao. We must be fair. Dapat alam natin sa sarili natin na kaya nasa buhay natin ang taong ito ay hindi para ibandera sa madlang pipol na naka-move on na tayo at hindi rin para ipakita sa mga gago nating ex na masaya na tayo kahit wala na sila sa eksena. We have this special someone beside us simply because we love them and we're happy. That's it!
Ang sarap kayang ma-in love. :)
Kaya nga minsan hindi ko rin maiwasan ang hindi mainis sa mga taong judgemental. Sasabihin nila sa'yo, "Ang bilis mo namang naka-move on!"
Bakit?
Bawal ba?
Kailangan ba sobrang tagal?!
May standard transit time ba ang pagmo-move on at pag-le-let go?
Paano? Saan? Kailan?
Saang batas ng Republika ng Pilipinas nakasaad yan?! Saan banda?! Let me see it?! (May pinaglalaban si Cielo. #Hugot)
Requirement ba ang mahabang mahabang panahon at kailangan ng maraming maraming taon ng pagiging miserable at being alone or single?
Whatever we decide, we do or what we say, people will still have their own comments as long as they can speak. They will dictate to you what you should do.
Ano ka, robot?!
Then when they saw you being happy already with someone else they would judge you again saying, "Hindi mo mahal yang bago. Panakip butas mo lang yan."
Masasabi mo nalang sa sarili mo na, "WTF as in where's the food este what the fudge?! Hawak ba nila ang puso ko? Hustisya, nasaan ka?! Human rights where can I find you? People is like a big supreme court judging me for all they want!" (#Hugot ulit)
Anyway, what I am trying to point out here is that, I strongly believe that a new found love can really help us on moving forward away from a broken love. With the help of Almighty, good people around us and this new special someone, we'll get by with our new life. Living in our dark and painful past for a very very long time is a big no-no. We must learn to step out of it so that we can see the light. And as we go along the way, God, family, good friends and that new found love are with us bringing the lessons that we have learned the hard way. Let's be thankful for having all of them around.
Sabi ng isa ko pang friend, "Hindi lahat ng ipinapakilala ni God sa atin at hinahayaan Niyang makasama natin sa mahabang panahon ay hindi ibig sabihin noon, para makasama na natin sila habang buhay. Minsan tinuturuan lang talaga nila tayo ng mga leksyon."
Very well said Beb Armi Lee. :)
People will come, stay then eventually go away from our lives. That's a normal process. And the only things that will be left are memories and hard earned lessons. That's a bitter fact. Kaya naman we should welcomely embrace new things, new beginnings, new life and of course new love. Huwag tayong mag-stick ng matagal sa nakaraan for we don't live backwardly. Kaya nga ang kalendaryo natin ay pasulong hindi ba? At hindi paatras. :p Hehe.
Eh paano kung walang NEW special someone na dumating?
God leads our life. Everything that is happening in our life has a reason and a purpose. If he or she doesn't come soon then let's learn to have joy within ourselves. The right one will come along in God's time. We must learn to wait because some people or things are truly worth of it. Manalig tayo sa forever because God alone is forever.
Ano nga ba ang ipinaglalaban ni Cielo sa blog post na ito?
Actually, wala naman talaga. Natuwa lang ako doon sa ipinayo sa akin ni Friend before na lalaki lang daw ang solusyon sa problema ko. Hahaha. I just tried to analyze what she said and I think that she has basis naman. Katulad na lang ng mga ipinaglalaban ko sa blog post na ito. :p
Lab, Cielo
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